It is a bit like being invited to gig to see the warm-up act but not the headliner, or invited to pre-drinks but not the actual party.
Northern Ireland will not be at the World Cup this summer, but on Monday (20:10 BST) they will face a France side who will be having their farewell send-off in Lille.
Coming off the back of a surprise defeat by Ivory Coast on Thursday, France will be favourites to beat Michael O'Neill's side and head off to the USA - where they will play Senegal, Iraq and Norway in Group I - in style.
While O'Neill said "it's nice to be invited" to play one of the World Cup favourites on their send-off, he isn't intending for his side to roll out the red carpet for the hosts.
"We probably have to be a badly-behaved guest, really," said O'Neill.
"That's what we have to aspire to do, in terms of if we can make the game difficult for France, but we haven't even mentioned that to the players."
O'Neill, who in May signed a new contract until 2032 amid interest from Blackburn Rovers, said how France decide to send their team off to the USA is "not something we pay too much attention to".
"It's more about the level of the opposition, the quality that they have and an opportunity for us to measure ourselves, both individually and collectively as a team, is the most important thing for us," he added.
"France are the home nation, so however they choose to celebrate or give their team a send-off, as they rightly should do, is down to themselves."